At a glance
| Split | 50/50 — 7 of every 14 nights each |
|---|---|
| Overnights in a year | 182–183 overnights per parent per year |
| Exchanges | About 3 exchanges a week (6 per two-week cycle) |
| Longest stretch for the child | 3 nights |
The 2-2-3 is the gentlest of the 50/50 rotations. The child spends two nights with one parent, two nights with the other, then a three-night weekend with the first parent — and the following week the whole pattern flips, so the other parent gets the long weekend. Nobody is ever away from either home for long, which is exactly why family courts reach for it with younger children. The cost of all that contact is movement: this schedule changes houses more often than any other common 50/50 plan.
The two-week pattern
| Mon | Tue | Wed | Thu | Fri | Sat | Sun | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Week 1 | A | A | B | B | A | A | A |
| Week 2 | B | B | A | A | B | B | B |
A = night at Parent A’s home B = night at Parent B’s home. The pattern then repeats.
How it works
Week 1 runs Parent A Monday–Tuesday, Parent B Wednesday–Thursday, Parent A Friday–Sunday. Week 2 is the mirror image: Parent B takes Monday–Tuesday and the weekend, Parent A takes Wednesday–Thursday. Add the two weeks together and each parent has had two 2-night blocks and one 3-night block — seven nights each. One common variation fixes the midweek days and rotates only the weekend; the counts stay the same.
Advantages
- The shortest gaps of any 50/50 schedule — a young child never goes more than three nights without seeing either parent.
- Both parents get a full weekend every other week, plus school-night time every week.
- Exchanges often line up with school or daycare drop-off, so handoffs feel like routine rather than an event.
- A clean 50/50 in overnights, which keeps timeshare arguments simple.
Drawbacks to weigh
- The most exchanges of any common 50/50 plan — roughly three a week, every week.
- Two homes in constant rotation means duplicated gear, and homework or projects travel back and forth.
- Only works well when both homes are close to each other and to school.
- Many families find children outgrow it by the middle primary years and move to longer blocks.
Who it suits
Best for toddlers, preschoolers and early primary children — roughly ages 2 to 7 — whose parents live near each other and can hand over calmly and often. It suits parents with flexible or similar work patterns. It is a poor fit for long distances, high-conflict handovers, or teenagers with their own busy schedules.
Holidays will move the real number
Everything above counts the rotation alone. Real parenting plans layer alternating holidays, school breaks and summer weeks on top — and those layers change the yearly count, sometimes by dozens of nights. The free calculator applies your actual holiday dates on a real 12-month calendar and counts the result exactly, and its compare mode shows this schedule against any other with the same holidays applied to both.
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Frequently asked questions
Is a 2-2-3 schedule really 50/50?
Yes. Over the full two-week cycle each parent has exactly 7 of 14 overnights. Across a real year one parent usually ends with 183 overnights and the other 182, decided by who has the first night of the year and by leap years — use the calculator to see your exact dates.
How many exchanges does a 2-2-3 have?
Six per two-week cycle — about three a week. That is the trade for the short stretches: the child changes homes every two or three days. Many families soften it by exchanging at school, so the child simply goes home with the other parent.
What age is a 2-2-3 schedule best for?
It is most often recommended for younger children, roughly ages 2–7, who do better with short times away from each parent. Older children usually prefer longer stretches — look at 2-2-5-5 or week on/week off as they grow.
Other schedules
2-2-5-5 · 3-4-4-3 · Week on / week off · Every other weekend · 70/30 · 60/40 · Custody schedules explained (all splits compared)
This guide is general information about common schedule patterns, not legal advice. Custody law and counting rules vary by state and by your court order.